#relationships

A positive signal or encouraging trait in a person or situation — the opposite of a red flag. Green flags indicate emotional maturity, trustworthiness, kindness, or compatibility. Spotting green flags early in a relationship is considered a healthy sign of self-awareness and dating literacy.

“He remembered a small thing I mentioned two weeks ago. Total green flag.”

A warning sign — a behavior, trait, or pattern that indicates potential harm, toxicity, or incompatibility in a person or situation. Borrowed from sports officiating and safety signaling, red flags in social media slang primarily refer to dating but apply to friendships, workplaces, and more.

“He talked badly about every single one of his exes on the first date. Massive red flag.”

A romantic or emotional relationship that exists in an undefined gray zone — more than friends, less than officially partners. A situationship involves the intimacy and investment of a relationship without the formal commitment, labels, or clarity. Often characterized by avoidance of "the talk."

“We've been hanging out for six months but haven't defined anything — classic situationship.”